You skipped the part where I say that my bf does spend time at his mom's house? It's still his house too even if he doesn't sleep there all the time (not my words, that's literally what my bf and his mom said to me.)

You don't know who I am or how I treat my friends or people around me lol so you don't have a right to say if I'm selfish or not. You don't know all the things I've done for my friends, nor the relationship I have with them. I don't think they're bad nor wish anything bad to happen to them, I just sometimes don't have the energy to keep up with them because we have different lifestyles and we all cope with our problems differently.

I just talked to my friend and she told me she didn't say yes to my boyfriend's mom yet. She said that she wanted to talk to me because she told me that she would also think it's weird if she was in my shoes. She said that she understands it and that she wouldn't like it if one of her friends started living with her (hypothetical) boyfriend's mom.

So yeah thank you stranger on the internet for your comments, I wasn't asking for any judgement but still.