The dude is gay not some sex trash u can use to release yourself.Gay guys are looking for a potential relationship too not just some randomn hookup that might never go anywhere. Its feels fcking manipulative, that u think u get to make the rule about how he should feel about you. Hes also disinterested in sex as u mentionned, so stop trying to push it on him, not every gay wants to be fuck buddy. Sad thing in this,He'll probably cave in, given his lack of experience and give in hoping for affection from you when in fact ur just using him to get off. Stop preying on this gay dude. Men like u piss me off. If u want sex badly, then stick with girls or other bi guys. Honestly, you bi men are trash.