Boyfriend (21M) is stonewalling me for a lie. Said I’m dead to him.

That makes no difference though you could get it from your one partner or you could get it from man number 50, knowing a body count doesn’t mean you know the character of who somebody sleeps with. That person with a body count of one could’ve stayed with a cheating abuser that fucked hundreds whereas someone that experimented could’ve accessed educated people that actually got themselves tested and that completely changes the dynamic. From my experience women with less experience were much more likely to be taken advantage of by creeps or abusers that I would not remotely trust to get themselves tested. It’s obvious you’re out of touch because the real question would be how do you view sex and do you get tested frequently? Asking body count doesn’t matter because you could have a “body count” of six and never once in your life gotten tested whereas a man with a body count of 30 could get tested after every partner. You’re setting yourself up for failure by prioritizing the wrong things. Even porn stars get tested regularly, that doesn’t mean your High school boyfriend does.

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