Curious Straight Guys Always Hitting on Me

You know what they say, one man's unwanted sexual escapades are another man's recurring dream.

But seriously, scroll back a few days and you'll find more than a few threads of thirsty dudes that would love nothing more than to have your problem.

I'm sure the answer is yes, but you have tried grindr right? Also, most of the time to get matched up with straight guys you'd need to set your tinder as female for them to even show up... Plus, you also swiped right, so clearly you thought they were attractive as well- they couldn't just message you out of the blue. So I'd double check your own profile has you listed as male looking for men if you solely want to be paired with gay guys. For those envying the OP, do the opposite and try your luck- just know that if too many straight guys flag your profile cause "a dude showed up in their list" then your account will be quickly suspended and put under review. If you want that reviewed in a reasonable amount of time then be a paying customer for $10/mo and you'll get priority (it can take months otherwise because of all the bots and spam they have to go through). Also, some guys just swipe right on everything, so if you get a match it's best to let the guy message you first. Or you'll end up getting some "fuck off homo" or "u damn fagits are everywhere" type responses (I quote those verbatim, for the record). And like OP is frustrated with, curious guys aren't relationship material... Consider it strictly fun with an attractive guy you might otherwise be able to scoop if he were gay since curious guys tend to be less (not completely) concerned with your looks and more so what you can do for them.

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