Just found out my (25f) boyfriend (26m) has been sexting anonymous people online.

I've had something very similar happen to me, with my husband. He told me something very similar, that it was a one time thing. It never happens. He will be completely honest with me in the future. I thought the same thing and that I really knew and loved and trusted him. It was a lie though. He didn't stop. It wasn't a one time thing. I would find it hard to believe that he was telling the truth. We are still trying to work through it and I still don't really trust him. I think you will always have that... A certain amount of distrust. It's like the paper metapbor. Trust is a piece of paper. Lies are like crumpling it up. Once it's wrinkled you'll never have a perfectly straight, uncrinkled piece of paper again.

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