This a long one, but I empathize with you.
My dude, a dating coach may not be what you need. I was in your same shoes. I went through some of your post history and can relate. Really ask yourself, what’s the goal here? Are you looking to find a lifelong partner? Or are you dating just to date? What are you looking to gain from a dating coach?
If your looking to date for a relationship, please keep reading:
My “dating coaches”, were my friends. People who I could ask (in hindsight) simple questions. But relying on them, I found was that I was losing the element of my self in my relationship. I wasn’t steering the ship. As cheesy as it sounds the only coach I needed was me. And I’ll tell ya what, I still have trouble every now and then.
How’s your personal life? Do you eat well? Sleep well? Do you have hobbies that you share with others? In social situations can you truly be you? I don’t know you, but if you find yourself struggling, it’s not all your fault. If your childhood and teens were disrupted, you missed critical milestones that most people take for granted.
What I found that helped me was mitigating avoidant behavior, and getting involved in a healthy hobby (great way to meeting people). And the biggest one, not overthinking.
Turn off the apps, go outside, get involved in your community, and be yourself. Build confidence in you, empathize with others, and you’ll attract who you will want to attract.
It’s all easier said than done. The road ahead is arduous.