Difficult friendship with an ISTP

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Ngl reading this as an ENFP really got on my nerves, I especially hate when people are rude, insensitive, and/or condescending. I'm definitely not the best at giving advice but I would say you could start by telling your friend something like, "I noticed you've been acting ____ towards me lately, is there anything I'm doing that you dislike?" but also tell her that because you're an ENFP you sometimes perceive things in a more emotional sensitive way (at least I do, idk if it's just an ENFP thing but I know that ISTP's can sometimes be insensitive). I'm not sure if this person was exactly an ISTP but I remember having a friend who kind of acted the same way. Like I would be joking and talking about my brother and she asked, "Why do I care about your brother?" I'm not friends with her anymore though so maybe if your friend continues acting that way even after you talk to her about it, you probably shouldn't really engage with her anymore. That's just my take on it tho lmao and I'm not exactly good at giving advice, but I've learned that sometimes you've just gotta split from the people you don't vibe with. Hope this helped somewhat!! :)

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