Hi all. I'm male, in my early twenties. I feel ugly as hell. Back into getting in better shape, but even when I was more fit, I felt like an ugly motherfucker. Online dating used to go better, except now I must be uglier than I was before, due to the low reply count. I'm trying my best to reduce stress and being more positive, and hopefully that will help me in the looks department. However, my vanity is a little fragile, so it pains me to be so ugly. Even asking women out can kill me inside, because I sometimes get weird reactions due to my face, my hair, etc.

I dress to my own fashion sense, and am quite individualistic. Still, I'm viewed as ugly. My face is too weird and lop-sided, I'm too light-haired, my nose is too big. Throughout high school and university, asking people out required a lot of confidence, and rarely worked. What can I do about my unattractiveness, even mentally? I wish I wasn't so ugly, and I know that it's a disgusting belief to have, and must seem so ungrateful. I just want to be attractive and good looking. Is it never going to happen?