Piss and moan. lol. JK. I dont really know what path I have out of this. I am trying to figure it out. I went from secure, living the exact life that we had planned, and all things good to dumped in the pit with a single sentence from my exhusband. He spent our savings without me knowing, and left. Its a tale as old as time, so Im not yelling PITY ME. Its just my reality. Safe and secure and living the dream to disabled single mom living in poverty with a single sentence. I was a stay at home Mom because he didnt want to have kids if "other people were going to raise them". Turns out he didnt really want kids no matter what, at least that is what his actions say. 10 years ago, I would have hitched up my big girl panties and fixed it all myself. Im a do'er. Im a fixer. But my body has gone into catastrophic failure and its a whole new game now, amd I dont like this game at all.