So now you're actually accusing me of taking advantage of drunk women because one time a friend of mine forgot she had invited me to hang out?

You're the one who brought ut up as a rebuttal to me saying drunken conse t is nomconsent.

Do you know what happened that night? We sat on her couch and gossiped about our exes. What a violation! Today she invited me over again and we ate leftover takeout - clearly a case of a victim developing stockholm syndrome.

Certainly no girl ever stuck by her rapist or abuser, right! I mean, if you want to use the "I have friends I ignore consent with" excuse, I'll gladly point out how fucked up that thinking is.

I didn't say not in any other.

Pretty well have by repeatedly dismissing it.

But I don't think the idea that you can't consent to something while drunk applies to every single interaction

According to every law and contract it does. People often excuse their behavior with "I was drunk/wasted"; why does it change specifically at personal information?

and that the line is usually drawn according to the consequences of the action a person consents to.

Wrong. It's drawn constantly based on personal preference, boundaries, etc. My friends might love getting hugs; I fon't get to hig random strangers just because it's not severely damaging.

Hence, why you can buy an absolutely unreasonable amount of takeout, but not a house or a tattoo or another 5 shots

And private information carries more weight than refundable food.

No, it's not my first job. I'm a contract worker in an industry in which jobs are literally never permanent. Bad life choice on my part, maybe, but not in any way relevant.

So is that why you're accustomed to lacking accountability? I could see that forming some bad habits, but plenty of contract workers still adhere to workplace ethics.

Check my posts some more if you don't believe me about the straight woman part. There's a few good ones about ex boyfriends, I think. Maybe you can bring them up to tell me how the breakup was my fault or something.

That's not proof either or diswaying from your conflicting anecdotes; plenty of people pretend to be black, women, feminist, etc on reddit to speak for those demographics in a way detrimental to them. Most feminists cherish womens consent in all things as well; so the label's got no glue, as it were.