Hi there Alexa. My name is Tom. I have been looking for a long term partner for some time now. First I will start with my my story and let you decide if you want to continue chatting or not. I am 35 years old. I was married for 7 years and with her for a total of 15. We started dating in college. We were the classic love story. I asked her for help one day on a homework project we had and romance ensued. It was great. She was everything I had ever wanted. She was smart, pretty, funny, easy to talk to and of course very good in bed. We got married in 08. It was about 6 months later that I got offered a really good job. It was with the same company I was already working for, just a better paying job. Only thing was, there was a lot of travel involved. I talked it over with my wife first and she was all for it. She would travel with me when possible, and when she couldn't she would be fine for a week by herself. Long story short...she found someone to keep her company after a few years of me traveling every 2 weeks. I wanted to surprise her one night when I was coming home from a trip. My flight was supposed to be back at 7pm one evening so I got up extra early and got a much earlier flight. I walked in our house at 2pm and found her with another man on our kitchen table. Not the best day I have ever had. If anything good came from it, it is that I know that women don't want to be left every other week alone. I know now that it's very important to make time for the one you love. I have dated off and on since the divorce. I always try to bring flowers on the first date. Even if it doesn't work out, I hope it at least brightens up their day. That brings me to your post. I have read so many of these posts in hopes of finding one I can have an ongoing thing with. I think it's an exciting and fun way to meet people. I seem to always find the ones that want to talk dirty, get off and then delete their account or just ignore me after that. I do enjoy the talking dirty stuff, it's always exciting to me when it's anonymous, but I want more. I want to find someone I can brighten their day everyday, or someone that I can develop a friendship with. If some of the dirty talk happens then ok, but if not I'm ok with that also.