I was with my ex for 7yrs my first real relationship. Lived together for 2yrs. Separated for a year - He was very manipulative and controlling. I moved to a different city I was happy doing great things for myself. He still texted me everyday I stupidly texted him back every time. Telling me he misses me and he’s sorry the same bullshit yada yada hes changed. 23yr old me believed everything. I packed my car and I had a weird gut feeling I cried for 30mins in my car before I left. He hasn’t changed things got worse and more verbal abusive plus physical.

Long story short people don’t change they’re just very good at hiding til you hit a fuse. Go with your gut.