You and this female met only a few months ago, you both truly do not know each other. She is obviously extroverted and you are an introvert. She is open sexually and you are reserved. So what? OK, she has a few web cam adult videos on line, it doesn't sound like hard core content, are you truly offended by the fact that she at some point did this? She has her reasons for doing so, maybe she needed the money to support herself, maybe she was young and made a mistake. Or, maybe she enjoys sex and wanted to be seen, whatever the reason, you need to decide if you are comfortable with her choices enough to move forward, because being with her in the future you can't keep this as something to hold against her or shame her for it later. Be honest. Say, I googled you and I found this, may I ask why you made this choice and is this the ONLY type of videos you made, did you make more hardcore underground videos that I need to know about? Also, you seem extremely different from this girl, you state you have sexual anxiety and I wonder if you are making a real connection with this girl or if you are being used financially in any way? I'm not trying to negate this new relationship, only trying to understand because you both seem completely different and you said YOU FLEW OUT TO HER, do you know if she often has other guys she meets on line to meet her? Do you know how she supports herself? What else is she about, as you gave very little information about who she is and more of what she DID. Is she an active Web-Cam girl? Or does she work? Student? You say she is very attractive, are you as well? What does she think of you?