I'm in my late 30's now, I can relate as I was once like you. Now I simply don't give a shit mate, and that's the best advice I can give you.

Look out for yourself, start building shit, life weights, gain confidence, dont always be avalable, be busy building your life, focus on you not women, this will attract them when you decide to focus on you, make you number one in your life and be the best fucker you can, take no shit and do what you feel is best for you. Take this path my friend and you will reap the rewards.

Women sense awareness and lack of confidence which ultimately will make you unattractive to the opposite sex.

Field day Report..

I'm no oil painting mate, very average, have a beer belly and fucking man tits, I lift weights but not enough to shit the excess.

I'm a single dad, about to be divorced. Was in my local bar last Wednesday, a great pub with regular clientele each day. When I entered the bar, I seen my mates but bar was full, so sat on the other side, I noticed this lady propped up on the bar, she was a 7/10 very fit body, we locked eyes, I smirked, looked away and talked to my buddies.

An opening came up over the other side of the bar, I sat close to her, miss princess was wating for me to chat her up because that's what all the lads did, she could handle herself, she was hit testing all the lads and they gave up saying she's too much. About 15 minutes passed, and she's looking my way, starts to talk to me and trys to insult me, I ignored her and kept on talking to my mates and the hot bar girl. The guy next to me left, so she moved up seats and started to give me shit, in a friendly way, she was basically seeing if I could put up with her princess shit which BTW I could, she started making fun of me, I came right back at her and after 10 minutes I had firmly put her in her place, had the whole bar laughing at her with my come backs.

An hour later, were deep in conversation and I'm like interesting lady. I was about to leave and I said to her, I live 10 minutes away, want to come back to mine for some drinks, without hesitation she said yes, I knew I was in.

She came home with me, we talked and chatted and had a good time, she was not testing me any more and respected me because i rose up to her challenge, I did not crumble I held my ground, held frame and as a Man I told her were to go.

10 pm comes along and I say to her, listen I'm going to be Frank, It's my bed time and I'm going to bed, you are either coming with me or going home, which is it, without saying anything, she went straight to my bed and we jumped on the good foot and did the bad thing, banging body on this girl and we had a lot of fun.

Moral of the story, stop giving a fuck and don't put pussy top of the mantel piece, chill, relax and have fun with the ladies, all's the ladies want is a confident man who knows himself and has a place in life, they did that shit man. Also always give as good as she gives you, women will test to see how much of a man you are and if you pass, you will reap the rewards.