Oh no. I could never imagine being in a relationship with an ESFJ. I was was with onewhen I was young and stupid, and know two couples with this pairing, each where the male INTP was henpecked. One of their wives was constantly sneering that people who had read a lot of books hadn't had a life. The other constantly had his headphones in whenever he was In the room with her. Maybe you are both so angry in righteous indignation as you are the exception to the rule but maybe it wouldn't touch such a nerve if you didn't know our incompatibility with them was not an absolute horrible truth. Life sucks for you dudes. How does it feel to be with someone who has no hope in hell of comprehending who you truly are? I'm not giving you crap if you know your happy and it can't get better than this. Good for you if so. But if your soul is sore and your mind is underestimated then please reach for something better, because you will be more compatible with almost anybody else.