wtf! "sex-plushies" should not be a thing! (especially on holidays) ffs that's what 'holidays' are for!
Where's the guy's father I wonder?
Unfortunately 'women' cannot 'teach a man how to be a man',, and here is the result!
A 'man' who's mother coddles him and caters to his ever whim is only facilitating his 'obsessive desires' --- which is no different from her facilitating any other type of 'obsessive' behavior.
I just got off the ph 15mins ago with an 18yo guy I have been mentoring for the past year. It's his birthday today.
When I first 'met' him (online in a 'fitness' forum) he was a 17yo Mormon 'brony' who had NO 'self esteem' and 'hated' most of his life and the people in it. He was an American version of this guy.
He thought all the people he knew "thought he was pathetic" and he "had no friends" and most certainly had never been with a woman.
BUT, as his 'bishop' had great plans for him, as did his parents who wanted him to become a 'Moron missionary', and being a 'priest', all the other church goers paid him a modicum of (fake) 'respect' to him which made him 'feel' like he was wanted BUT he wanted to 'be happier' and that's where I came into it. I have Ideas which I shared with him.
The 'problem' was, he was trying to function in this world using a 'system' (the 'beliefs' of The 'church' of the LDS) which is clearly based on much Bullshit, which he knew was the case BUT he didn't know of any other way to be, which is where I came into it.
He had never had anyone talk to him as I did, and as I'm a 50yo Aussie guy, I treated him as a 'younger equal' and I listened to him. I told him I would Only tell him things I fully believed in and lived by. I told him he could "ask me anything and I'd do my best to tell him what I knew", and that I would never lie to him. (coz how the fuck would more Bullshit help him?)
I explained to him that "the Only thing you need to change is 'your Mind'! But this was 'easier said than done' and that I would be his 'reference point' as he 'changed his mind' and "if i could, I would" share with him the best information I have.
Over a few months and many tens of thousands of typed words,, he began to respect my 'experience' and as I made sure to only tell him the things I fully believed in which I lived My Life by and which I thought he'd also be able to use ,, and slowly he came to see that he too could 'think' as I do, and his Life would improve. He did and his Life did too! I'd told him so!
His parents had 'made sure' that his 'life' was centered around "The Church" -- which had fucked up his thinking Big time!
I took great pains to explain in detail 'why I thought this' and as "The Truth is True, it doesn't change', he too will be able to apply a similar way of thinking and "change his Life and how he feels about it"
I gave him "another way to think" about "Life, the Universe and Everything" and he gobbled it up!
Today he's no longer 'affiliated with The Church' and is now working full time at a camping ground near his home (in bumfuck Ohio).
When I met him he was about to go "doing mission work" for a year. After I had 'shared' much of my knowledge with him, he dropped that idea and today he considers himself an 'agnostic' Buddhist!
His parents also thought that I was some kind of 'people smuggling pedophile' who was trying to 'groom their son' for some nefarious purpose! lol! How wrong could they be?!
They no longer think this, in fact they are aware that, whatever it was I had told their son Had had a highly beneficial effect and now they are fully supportive of him being in touch with me! :D
Today is ~1yr since I read a post by him which made me reach out to him and 'offer my help' ... His parents are very pleased with how their son has 'come out of his shell' and are also extremely happy to see him progress as he has, including getting his drivers licence and shortly after that, a full time job.
Little do they know how much my input 'inspired' W to DO these things BUT they aren't complaining. In fact he tells me his relationship with his parents "is the best it's ever been".
He's since discussed the peculiarities of 'grool' with me (lol) and has discovered he doesn't mind a few drinks every now and then (I made sure to impress upon him the importance of "moderation in All things and now he's quite comfortable swearing and saying words like 'fuck' , for as i told him,, "If you can't say the word, you'll never do the deed!"
All I did was give the guy some "No Bullshit" advice and a mix of guidance, moral support and occaisionally a cyber kick up the arse if he began to fall back into his "old habits", something his parents were unable to do, mainly becoz they based all their 'thinking' on LDS Bullshit, which he knew 'wasn't right But he'd never known any 'alternative' until I came along.
A year ago I was talking to a fuckin brony! Today I spoke with a cool young man who's doing as well as anyone could hope for!
Today we discussed 'how much he's changed' and how much 'better his Life is' today. I had hoped to help him 'break free and get to here',, but last year I had no idea if he would.
Today he's my 'poster child' and a perfect example of how 'fucked up thinking=>fucked up people' and how empowering it is, giving someone the Truth to work with! I still don't know how anyone can be 'happy' following such a Bullshit 'belief system' (the LDS creedo)
He no longer is depressed or anxious and he's doing better that 98% of guys his age! Go W!
TL:DR: This kid is SO 'lost'. It's clear whatever he's been 'taught' has failed to help him succeed in anything he wants to do which is why he's retreated into this 'fantasy world' where he can 'make the rules'. A world which his mother allows him to inhabit, BUT this Sad kid is the result of 'her best actions!
Alas, he knows he's living in a "losers" state of mind BUT he's got No Idea how else to be. He needs a Man to 'guide him' But I don't think he has one, and as his mother thinks she's got balls he's become so emasculated by her this is the 'result'!
This is how you become an obsessive virgin who ends up killing what 'he can't have', and this time 'mummy' won't be able to help in any way!