Brooo i had the same problem, i know the feels i thought i would go insane.
Been on reddit for years but never commented this one reminds me of my situation soo i gotta help
If you follow this things will change fastt! Trust me from a guy who knows
Countless days wanting to scream and punch things to her CONSTANTLY wanting to be fucked (the dream is possible bro)
Btw dont listen to these comments half of them probably dont fuck thier girls more than once a week maybe and they have probs dont like fukin as much as say u or me
Anyways here goes
First thing - Your post says it all you listen to her do what she likes, give oral & treat her like gold THATS THE BIGGEST PROBLEM
Sounds weird right? But Trust me bro & i know you love her i loved mine but cut that shit out they dont want it PERIOD they dont want a guy they can run all over
Because its not about sex drive
my girl used to say she had “low sex drive” & now she wants to fuck 3-4 times a day its BULLSHIT TRUST ME
Its all about attraction level and how attracted she is to you, it dont mean she doesnt love you its just here attraction level at the time (im questioning if love even exists personally)
Doing nice things treating her like a queen doesnt turn her on im not saying be an asshole cuz that will turn her off
BUT
You cant put her on a pedastal treat her like shes not too interesting Like shes not that special
Like you really want her and love her but you dont really care if she leaves
Heres some things to LIVE BY
Never touch her first unless your gonna start to have sex or something wait for her to do it. She will start putting her arm around YOU and rubbing up on YOU
STOP over complimenting her stop telling her shes “beautiful” “perfect” & “i love you” so much
(Tell her once in a while and for the other times say stuff like “im with you arent i” cuz really she knows what you think otherwise you probably wouldnt be with her. She just wants to hear you say it DONT thats when they act up because theyre too comfortable)
(You might think how will we have sex she wont ask...bro shes your girl she will because doing these things will rise her attraction level)
But heres what you do....ready?
Heres how to never argue with your girl again!!!!
Stay calm.
Thats it.
Never show ANY signs of true fustration Once you do they will try their hardest to get you mad (this is the hard part) stick it out stay calm. they will have to calm their boil in your ocean of cool. LOL
This is my favourite step because this is where you start to truly learn who she really is the deep secrets and ideas and how she really wants a man to make her feel
Once the arguements have gone which will make her less attracted
And you stop treating her like shes gods gift which also makes her less attracted
Its like cause and effect she has to change
BASIC RULE OF THUMB
Just imagine a cool calm collected character example james bond then a wimpy kid who gets bullied or something
How would they be if they had a gf and how attracted would she be to them
A wimpy kid would probably do what your doing (no offence i used to be the same) listening to her, trying to change for her trating her like gold
Where as james bond or someone would be more focused on his “mission” or himself than the girl if she said do this he wouldnt just do it i cant imagine him opening doors, laying his jacket on wet puddles he doesnt shower his gf in complements and cuddles and i love yous and always trying to touch the girl but all the girl would throw themselves on him...but why?
When you start implementing i guess ill call it the “james bond” the girls will always complain and tell you that they want more attention, they want you to tell them i love you more
DONT YOU ALREADY DO THAT?! LOOK WHERE IT GOT YOU! (just things i had to tell myself too bro)
The funny thing is they say that they want more but when you DONT give it them they suck you like never before, ride you like never before (its fucking wild youll love it)
But then when you DO always tell them you love them aka treat them like gold they start talking about on im not in the mood, im tired, my pussy hurts.... they get comfy cuz they know you aint going no where
If you were a celebrity for examples sake drake or whichever you think shes attracted to
you think her pussy would be hurting then? you think she wouldnt be in the mood then?
Dont think so (hard pill to swallow i know but all guys need to realise this)
And let me tell you they wouldnt take your girll by constantly telling her how beautiful she is or saying i love you so much please go out with me (which is the energy you give off when you treat her like gold)
Thers other things like money, your fasion, fame and reputation/ social circle that plays a part but not as significant to how you act when shes around
Treat her good shes a human being like everyone but give her what she WANTS not what she SAYS SHE WANTS cuz theyre completely different
you can tell what she wants by how she acts how much she wants to fuck, how wet she gets & if she listens to you & if she stays with you
She might chat a bit of shit about giving more attention but you will know what she wants by how she acts
Lol i even said to my girl when she mentioned it “you want me to go back to who i was? All over you? always wanting to fuck?” She looked up at me with a coy smile you know what happend after that
Its a long read but worth it im happy for you cuz once you do this stuff your sex life will change forever its a process you probably wont change them over night but its all up to you but you will see changes in her instantly
Just keep it up and remember the keys & PLEASE DONT LISTEN TO THE SEX DRIVE BULLSHIT
YOUR GFS SEX DRIVE IS DEPENDANT ON YOU IF SHE AINT FUCKING A LOT ITS CUZ “YOU” AINT CUTTING IT
IF SHE WAS WITH A DIFFERENT MAN IT WOULD BE DIFFERENT ITS IMPOSSIBLE FOR IT TO BE THE SAME
TRY TO BE THE GUY WHO GETS A LOT OF SEX IF THATS WHATS IMPORTANT TO YOU
Dont chase let her chase you...your the man your the prize be the prize