The common denominator is Dylan. He is toxic, and it is is clear with these messages. The problem is, they cannot get past the hate for each other to figure out that he is the issue, and they have something in common. I do believe both of them were drawn in by his “good looks.” He talks a big game, but in the end, he is a loser. I believe that he brought Heather down easily because she didn’t have much to take down, because she was living a basic life. She hoped he would get out and take care her of them. Instead he used and abused her. Marissa had a little more going for her, but we see now that she floated his lifestyle. He is an abusive pos, and I think that Heather isn’t far off in her rants. Getting out of prison, you need shelter first and foremost. He secured that, and I have no doubt that he used Heather until the end. I do believe that she loved him and believed in him, and he took advantage of that. That’s sucks, and it IS hard to rebuild your life. She needs counseling. Marissa is feeling the same as Heather, but has more resources to get out of it. She is still clearly hurt by everything that took place, and it is obvious that Dylan is abusive. As much shit as I have talked on this sub in the past, I do think what Heather has said, has some weight now. I think she has maybe had trouble explaining or communicating what, when , where or how because this was her first lesson in being truly used. He assisted in taking the little she had, fed her drug use and her mental health was not good to begin with. Easy all day if you need a jump when you get out of prison. He takes advantage of vulnerable women. Now he has his claws in a woman with children….. it’s sick, and we need to call Dylan out more