Haha that is very comforting. Really!

She has been pushing to get married for quite some time now and in reality I would be the one to do the planning. She would give me a general outlay of the project and vision and I would go about getting it done.

I helped a close friend do theirs about a year ago and it was a hit and something I can confidently say I would be able to do well. I organized everything from food, venue, contractors for temporary structures like gazebos and the aisle, live music, lighting, table setting for about 80 people and I didn't find it too bad but it's not too different than what I do for part of my work.

At that wedding where there was a group of about 10 of these guys who my friend selected carefully that had our own table and it worked out great.

I can deal with 5-10 of them easily but the sheer volume of people my GF has been talking about inviting makes me feel a little weird having so few people.

And in reality, I'm in a new city once again and I should be finding a new group of friends of a higher caliber. I am not young and dumb (I would like to think) anymore and can't really keep these other people around if they don't become better people