Thanks for sharing. Kinda sucks but I think it's part of the culture we grew up in. With social media and the internet we live in a world where you can literally find anything you want. I mean a guy can search porn for the ideal perfect woman (out of thousands to millions of girls)... In real life even as a good looking guy you will never find a girl that fits every single body preference he wants in a partner. So I know as a guy that conditions us to only find certain women attractive and the rest just go under the radar because well they are normal attractive not porn star attractive which is what we have been conditioned to find attractive.

I guess the same could be said for women though. Why date some guy who is skinny when you could date a guy with big arms who looks like a badass? Years ago people only met because their families new each other, mutual friends, or happened to meet up at a community gathering or something like that. That is how it worked for thousands of years until the last century really. So now you take two random people who literally have had no previous similarities or shared experiences and throw them together and expect something to happen other than the biological urge to procreate. It doesn't work. Why should they "get to know you" when they can literally just have sex with the first willing mildly attractive person on tinder? It's like porn in real life (not really but kinda).

I find the people that are the easiest to connect with on a deeper level are people who don't use social media. So that means usually some village person in a third world country because they are the only one's who have not been affected by the technology era we now live in.