Weird.
I'm gay, and I don't have any sort of "fetish" or general "preference" toward asian people - I like everyone :D
I play games mostly in my spare time - I'm not incredibly socially active, but do go out now and then. I've had a few relationships, but I would be one of the last people you'd call a "player" or anything.
Last week I went to a small house party / gathering, and I met a lovely 23 year old Chinese guy - and we've had our second date this week.
All I did was say hi because he looked a bit bored / his friends were elsewhere at that time.
Moral of the story: It's not difficult to meet anyone from anywhere. Just... idk, don't be a cunt?
It's not hard.