Not involved at all because it's not for me and my Dom. We are monogamous, non exhibitionist nor are we voyeristic. So for us it feels pointless.

My Dom also has a said something that felt really true. "Why would you choose to hang out with folks because you do the same sex acts? Like would you join a group for people who just love anal? Or even when it comes to relationship, would you join a group that was only about traditional marriage dynamics?" And that's pretty fair.

I have been to munches in the past but to be honest the types of folks weren't really for me. A lot of steam punk types which is fine, but I supposed I wanted to meet completely average looking/presenting people who weren't going to be creepy with me (a female sub of above average attraction).

We are in a 24/7 dynamic, which presents like a traditional relationship. Super happy with our dynamic and not involving anyone externally IRL.