As a 30 year old white guy of distinctly average attributes, I recommend trying with everyone. As nobodies priority and everyone's option you will sink away to obscurity without continued perseverance to friendship.

Being too critical of how your perceived to others works both ways, you can see yourself as the annoyance in someone's life or you can see yourself as the facilitator.

I dont have anyone hit me up anymore. It's always me that does the leg work, but I choose (90% of the time) not be offended and the rare 10% of times I fail, after a week someone reaches out by sending a gif and it's just enough to let me know they don't know how to initiate a conversation either, but they still want one.