How often/how much time does someone typically spend with their ex that they don’t like?

PTSD makes your brain see danger/threats everywhere so my gut alone doesn’t serve me well).

I've been through the same nonsense, including being abused and told I was imagining it as a kid. And that (the non-existent) abuse was also my fault.

It's taken me a really long time to sort this all out as well.

I remember my first few relationships, running online and posting "My boyfriends ex-girlfriend doesn't like me and he insists they keep their Friday dinner and movie at her house to just the two of them because she's lonely. What should I doooooo!?!?!?!"

I mean, walk away, girl? It took me so long to realize I don't have to fight, or justify, or argue, or convince anyone to love me the way I want to be loved. I can just walk away.

Good luck :)

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