I just want to remind people (not defending bts/hybe/bh) but fandom and stanning should be fun . it is not your job. You don't get paid for this.Unfortunately things like schedules etc are out of our hands. But if you do feel emotionally or financially overwhelmed or if you feel exploited as a fan , its okay to take a step back . its okay to not buy every album or listen to every song that comes out or be tuned in for everything.

I understand being overwhelmed because sometimes i get too. I dont always have the time to listen to the album the day or week it drops, I don't always have the resources to buy the album, or even the energy to watch an MV. And that's okay . None of their livelihoods is dependent on me. This is just a fun thing I do at my own time and pace and enjoyment.