I'm (22M) supposed to get a good job to spoil my gf (21F) when we get married

This is painful to read...

Seriously dude, you will never find happiness in a long term, committed relationship with a materialistic person like this that equates love to MONEY. How much will you spend on ME?

That is a trainwreck waiting to happen. You're 22 fucking years old, no offense but you're still a kid, you have sooo much youth and life ahead of you. If you do choose to stay with her, DO NOT GET MARRIED ANY TIME SOON!!!! For the love of christ man, wait until you're at least like 28 years old.. you both need to grow and mature more

Women who only care about fancy, expensive things will suck your soul out... it will never be enough.

I wish you the best...

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