My parent are the same as well especially my mum who is very controlling about things around her. She get mad with the littlest thing she barge in my room and get mad when item are not in a straight line or a little bit out of place. If the bag I am wearing on me is a bit twisted she get furious and start calling me name and tearing me down. Like calling how I am never able to do anything right or never ever would be successful just for one small mistake or that I am immature. Alot of the thing she get mad at has nothing to do ⁰ everyone to adhere to it. It is hard to be positive when these thing keep happening. It anger me so much and destroy my self esteem. She does not think anything she say is too much instead think she is alway in the right. She does not understand people are diffrent and have diffrent viewpoint instead she expect everyone must be the same