Sounds like the problem here is that both of you dumbfucks thought that just spoiling your kid rotten and chunking money at therapies would have fixed the issue of your son, because your stupid generation of parents thinks that just paying the bills and buying gifts is more than enough that it takes to be a parent.

Well news fucking flash to you: IT FUCKING ISN'T.

And no, you deserve no congratulations whatsoever for struggling to raise him, THAT WAS YOUR MORAL OBLIGATION AND YOU STILL FAILED AT IT.

And now you deranged and possibly pedophile of a son is roaming around the streets and since he can't function problem, he won't get a job, meaning that he will probably become a drug addicted hobo and die in a gutter or under a bridge.

Fucking great job there, pal.