Humiliation is a kink but personally I think it really only works when there are well established boundaries and respect. There is a real lack of consideration for actual relations between people in porn but especially the sissy fetish. The porn and the hypnos, which are designed to be binged and watched for long periods, combined with the lack of respect can lead to really conflicting feelings.

Yes I like being called a whore, bitch, and faggot but really only in person. Sure it’s hot but they are personal words that have different contexts to everyone. If I don’t like the dirty talk I can just say that when I’m playing with someone. Having a hypno scream “you’re worthless” at you for 15 minutes looses its appeal super quick.

Just because I have a humiliation kink doesn’t mean I lack self respect. But that is impossible to really respect online, so the sissy positive spaces make a lot of sense to me. I can feel empowered by my sexuality. That’s the whole reason I practice it.