Hi Fountsy, you have likely found a server already but thought I'd reach out.

I run a small community called Project SMP, we have a minecraft and valheim server, on valheim we only have about 6 of us playing, a few hours here and there each day. Very casual pace.

We are a modded server but only for the quality of life features of multiplayer like not having torches expire, items float in water etc, it's a easy one click install guide if you sound put off by that.

If you are interested I'm happy to have you hang in the discord if you wanna just first see what we are getting up to in our screenshots and such. We have no plans to rush bosses and hit endgame asap. We are doing lots of building with looking at doing each boss about every two weeks. I have a system in place that prevents bosses being killed until we are ready to do so.

Kind regards!