In context of FWBs and hook-ups, the other person's physicality IS important because that's what the relationship is about. It's about sex, so the size of sex organs are relevant innit?

Nobody in their right minds will have a casual relationship or FWB with someone they are not physically attracted to. If OP wants big dicks, and performance, then she's entitled to her preference.

Yeah you're proving my point here that OP is in the right here and she should absolutely go for whatever she desires

This is probably why so many women are upset with OP? HOW DARE A WOMAN DEMAND PLEASURE?

Actually, a lot of women here hold other women to higher standards than they hold men to.

May be so in majority of posts but You're being vague and generic here generalising

While the examples I gave you with respect to posts and comments are specific including the awards and the suspiciously offensive commenters

but you seem dead set that it's most definitely women while I'm not discounting the possibility that it could be women but there's a high chance of it being men because of all my aforementioned reasons

So I'm neither going to bore you to death repeating the pointers that I already posted that made me dubious nor going to argue that it's most definitely a man because there's no objective way for me to prove, it's in fact a man. So have a nice evening