No, people who don't stand up for themselves aren't pussies. A pussy is a guy like JBL, who bullies people who clearly don't like and don't want confrentation. They're passive, kind people and there's nothing wrong with that. If anything, it's the norm personality wise.

Look bro, I'm not gonna argue with you. I'm just gonna say there's a difference between being an unlikable, bad person and a likable, good person. The difference being you're either the guy who'd fight for the Mauro's getting pushed around, or the guy who'd kick some dirt in his face while he's on the ground after an ass whooping telling him he should learn to defend himself, call him a pussy, and leave. You're 32 years old, and you still didn't come to the conclusion that support and understanding is necessary.

You wouldn't do that to your son if you had one, because that's inappropriate and akin to behavior from an abusive dad. It's still abusive behavior and line of thinking if it's directed at human beings who don't happen to be related to you. There's a good difference between helping someone, and giving them a pep talk to help them overcome that fear of confrontation and hopefully one day defend themselves and just calling a guy a pussy and telling him to man the fuck up.