Uh.

First of all, just bc a girl is willing to meet a stranger guy to please him doesn't mean she's putting her life at risk. There's kik and multiple different ways to try and make sure the other person is sane. In my opinion it's up to each person to make sure they are safe, and both parties are taking the same gamble.

Second of all, just bc there aren't many success posts it doesn't mean those are the only times something has worked out from this subreddit. I for one have met at least 1 guy from here recently, and I've met more in the past. I didn't make the time to write a success story nor did they, but good times were had.

Third, you saying that the subreddit is getting "gayer" is kinda mean. What if guys want to explore their sexuality and think this would be a good place to meet??

Anyways. You only have some numbers that I don't think mean as much as you think. There's far too many confounding variables to try and make sense of those numbers.

TL; DR: I don't think your conclusions are sound. Leave the subreddit alone.