I'm a girl and if my boyfriend told me this I would be so confused. I often do this and my boyfriend has never minded and actually has told me before he likes the attention. We've been dating for 6 years now. Granted, I don't do it every single time that I initiate, but I do it now and then.

The problem is, sometimes I think I'm in the mood because I am mentally, and then start initiating and then realise I'm not getting any tinglies down there that you know... Eventually makes things wet. If that's not happening, I usually stop because that's my body's way of telling me it's not into it right now.

I would have no way of preventing this from happening because I don't have control over it.