To me the answer is easy - because things happen and sometimes you fall for someone. I’ve never seen someone “actively seek” teenagers. I do understand that it happens, but in all the cases that I know it was just some random event.

It’s seriously weird to think that anytime someone dates a young woman it’s because he’s a creep who wants to create an abusive relationship, come on.

I also don’t believe in “women his age can’t stand him”. That’s a sweeping generalization. I know of so many cases when those men had perfectly normal relationship with women of different ages and it just so happened that at one point in their life they fell for someone younger.

Sure, if a guy you’re dating has exclusively dated teenagers then you could be worried, but that is extremely rare (where I live anyway).