My bf is emotionally detached

It started when he first told me he didn’t see a clear future with me and didn’t know what he wanted. I was so confused by this because I thought we both were so sure. I gave him more time to think about it because maybe he was just going thru a funk, but the next few weeks he acted really cold and distant to the point I was going insane. Finally decided to have a sit down talk about it and he confirm he didn’t see it going anywhere so I said it’s best to part ways. Blocked all contact with him from that day on and of course was in tears for a bit because that’s natural part of breakups. After having more time to reflect on everything I did a risky thing and texted him asking how he was doing and we agreed to just keep in touch once in a while. I feel much better now that things are resolved and we ended on good terms and I think now I can move on faster knowing he’s not completely out of my life but just enough that I can be more confident in myself and find the love I truly deserve

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