My biggest fear is being committed to someone and cheating on me for years on end.

I don't mind feedback, as long as it's from people who are trying to increase the overall good in the universe.

That being said, I found some good quites too:

Marriage is the beginning of love for your spouse, not the result of it.

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A happy marriage is about three things: Memories of togetherness, forgiveness of mistakes, and a promise to never give up on each other.

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If you purposely do not tell your spouse about your talks, meetings, lunches, texts and phone calls, alarm bells should be ringing! Are you deleting messages from your phone or do you deny the communication you have with him/her when asked?

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Your spouse gets less of you while the other person gets more. Whether it is less communication, affection, your thoughts, or your innermost world, your time and focus are taken from your partner and transferred to this other person.

Regardless of the topic of discussion, or the depth of the connection, or any other factors, what you're doing hurts. I want you to talk to me. To open up and share your thoughts and feelings with me about Everything, even the things that you are afraid to talk about. Why wouldn't you at this point? What do you have to lose? Nothing. The potential for good exists though. So please, talk to me.

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