My ex-boyfriend [37M] just broke up with me [27F] this morning over text, do I have the chance to win him back?

Eek. You revealed your crazy way too early. 3 months in and you're already overreacting to him like this? Yeah, I'd run too.

I told him that things didn't feel the same, like he used to be more affectionate in the beginning of the relationship, we could meet 4times a week and he could kiss me or hold my hand on the table of a restaurant.

2 months in and you're doing this?? Girl. Of course he broke up with you. a 2 month relationship should not involve conversations like this. My advice to you is to leave him alone and work on yourself. You seem to have some insecurity issues (try googling Anxious Preoccupied Attachment– Unlike securely attached couples, people with an anxious attachment tend to be desperate to form a fantasy bond. Instead of feeling real love or trust toward their partner, they often feel emotional hunger. They’re frequently looking to their partner to rescue or complete them. Although they’re seeking a sense of safety and security by clinging to their partner, they take actions that push their partner away.

Even though anxiously attached individuals act desperate or insecure, more often than not, their behavior exacerbates their own fears. When they feel unsure of their partner’s feelings and unsafe in their relationship, they often become clingy, demanding or possessive toward their partner. They may also interpret independent actions by their partner as affirmation of their fears. For example, if their partner starts socializing more with friends, they may think, “See? He doesn’t really love me. This means he is going to leave me. I was right not to trust him.”). Sounds to me like you're self-sabotaging and need to work on that.

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