My former pastor performed oral sex on me under the excuse of religion.

U did nothing wrong even if u said yes back then and agreed to what he said, its not ur fault. He lied to u, brainwashed u into thinking this is an ok thing when its not at all, u were underage. Even giving a consent at that age is not a consent. U were persuaded by a much older man that was an adult at the time and u weren’t. A consent from ur parents should have been taken but ofcourse he wouldn’t say anything because he is a manipulative, doesnt deserve to be a pastor. U dont need to face him anymore, u dont need go go back and meet him anymore. Sometimes not confronting someone is the best thing we could do to ourselves and move on with our lives. He is a miserable man and would never find happiness or love in his life. God or no god he will be punished

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