I never treated her badly though. She specifically told me that she didn’t want me to pity her etc. because of this. I treat her the same: she is my mother who I love. I have gone through your comments that you have left on others’ posts. You are rude. You are Inconsiderate to others’ experiences because you do not experience them yourself. I was looking for some understanding, some advice. Not some snarky comments about me and my mother whom you do not know anything about. You are attempting to paint some picture of a daughter mistreating her mother or being careless of her mother during her cancer battle. If you would like to be treated differently than before your cancer experience than that is okay, but this is my mother who I know better than anyone. You do not get to tell me that I should be treating her differently. You don’t know our relationship. You don’t know her story. You only saw a post of a desperate daughter looking for some advice and decided to bash her. I am 19 years old. I am not perfect. I love my mother and frankly your comments have been ignorant and disrespectful to not only me, but my relationship with my mother.