Okay I’ve been thinking about this since yesterday and I’m finally ready to compile my thoughts. Unless I missed something big, there’s no actual proof that nanny had sex in the child’s bed. I find it very, very hard to imagine an elderly nanny wanting to have sex in her nanny child’s bed (and if this is the case, there might be bigger issues here, because that leads me to believe there is some kind of kink that involves a child. I don’t actually know anything tho so don’t hold this against me!) I would say it is much, much more likely that nanny had sex somewhere else in the house and then went and slept in the NKs bed.

Ordinarily, I would say it’s disrespectful for your nanny to have a random friend sleep in your child’s bed. It sounds, though, like you did offer up the bed to her friend before you knew it was a romantic male friend. I completely understand why you would be shocked/upset by this, but since you did allow your nanny’s friend to sleep in your child’s bed, I could easily see how nanny assumed it would be ok for them both to sleep there. SO, assuming your nanny did not have sex in your child’s bed and they just passed out there shirtless, it’s definitely a little weird but

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