I’m not reading another soap box lecture/ novel of yours.At a quick glance it’s just another rant of yours WITH. ALL CAPS AND BLOCK PRINT”. Your arrogance is astounding.
Somehow I ran into one of your comments and then saw all the advice” you hand out on here on Reddit and it’s actually quite shocking. And to the most vulnerable of people.
I don’t need to be told how women need to be “educated” or how the cycle goes. And the fact that you feel that days after a women has been sexually assaulted and comes here for support that she needs to hear “yup this is when you should have left”. It was only going to get worse” And “yup he wanted to humiliate you” then there is something seriously wrong with you. You don’t immediately dive into “education” and “empowerment” strategies.
This isn’t “pretending” either. And it’s not keeping them boxed into false beliefs. It’s taking things one step at a time. This. Just. Happened!!! How about asking if she is OK? Has she told anyone? Do you have a support system? Do you need resources? Nope. You didn’t do any of that.
What you basically did was tell them they should have left and that they missed their “cue” to leave. So in your effort to be a Reddit psychologist to yet another vulnerable person on Reddit you like to prey upon to feel better about yourself you just added more feelings of guilt and self blame to this women’s plate.
I think people like yourself are more dangerous than the outright on line bullies and trolls. You lecture anyone about any topic. The poor people in r/confessions that you analyze and tell them how much therapy they need based off of some one paragraph post about something they feel guilty about.
As I pursued your ten chapter lecture to me I saw comments like “using your your logical reasoning do see that do see that, and understand that instead.” And telling me how I ought to help women in the future. You are literally telling me how I should think, act and help women in the future. Yet you have zero idea how I currently help others now.
Your arrogance is astounding and it’s frightening to see the bombs you leave in peoples laps wrapped up in a package of “I’m so helpful”.