Parents are about to be homeless, and none of us can buy basic things

Thanks for all the advice!

Yeah, her parents are really helpful and they're going to pay for most of it. It just makes me feel terrible, because they shouldn't have to pay for something stupid that my girlfriend and I did.

I'd never marry her just because of the baby, but I've been with her for over two years (three this November), and if things keep going as well as they are now then I'd imagine getting married when we're around 23-25. Still kinda young in my opinion, but I have years to think about it and mature. That's not really a big deal yet though. But anyways, things are perfect between me and her, which makes the situation a lot easier.

I haven't stopped looking for a job, but it's not going well. Like I said in the OP, I've applied to literally every place on Snagajob.com, and most of them won't let me re-apply for six months, and it's only been about two months. I've been checking every week to see if there are new jobs posted but there haven't been any.

I live in a suburb of Indianapolis, and I had an interview for a place downtown but my mom won't drive me anywhere over 10 minutes away...

I don't have newspapers or ever see any help wanted ads. I've really been relying on Snagajob. I'll have to find some other sources online, but I'll only have that resource for a few more weeks and then my internet's gone, and I also won't have a phone to use anymore because we can't get a phone card for my prepaid phone, so businesses can't call me for interviews.

I haven't given up, but finding a job feels pretty hopeless.

The only money I've ever gotten on a day other than my birthday was from Google AdSense, because I put ads on a website that got somewhat popular for a while. I said that in another comment on this post. I've been trying to get a computer for years so that I could make websites 24/7, because I'm 100% confident that I can make a lot of money, considering I made $150 in just a couple weeks from a website several years ago. I was planning on making several websites that would be way better than the one I made in middle school and get much more than $150 in two weeks.

But unfortunately, I can't get a computer anymore due to the situation. It'd be crappy of me to save $600+ for a computer while the whole house is hungry lol. But it really would've paid for itself really quickly and helped a lot. It's definitely the best option for me to get money, but I just can't get started because I'll never be able to afford a computer.

This is going to sound odd since I'm a teenage boy, but I honestly did not want to have sex until I was married, but my girlfriend kinda convinced me to do it. There wasn't much arguing, since I'm a teenager, but still. We did use protection most of the time, and we only didn't use it once, and of course with my luck she got pregnant. The studies that say that pre-ejaculatory semen doesn't contain any sperm seem to be false, because I know for sure that I didn't ejaculate that day. So it's crazy to me that she got pregnant the one time we had unprotected sex, plus I didn't even ejaculate. Probably too much information, but you mentioned safe sex and peer pressure. I definitely should've listened in health class when warned that it only takes one time to get pregnant. Still odd that I didn't ejaculate though. In a Google Search, the results all say that nobody's sure whether or not sperm is released before beforehand ejaculation, but I'd say what happened to me is good evidence that it does.

I'm finishing school, and so is she. I don't think I can go to college anymore though. I know there's financial aid and all, but I'll still owe something and I'll never be able to pay it off. I'll also have a kid to pay for at the same time, and I won't be able to pay for anything for anyone. Feels terrible to make other people pay for my kid, but I can't even pay for anything for anyone.

I'm rambling a lot and jumping around different topics, but I think I replied to everything. Thank you for your advice and everything; it means a lot.

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