Don't take their comments personally. Also look at it from their side, if someone doesn't know what they're looking for, and the experienced person is having a bad day, they're going to get even more pissed off. I'm not condoning it, not saying that's okay. Just showing you the other side.

That being said, there is a valid point there. Try to get ahead of the conversation and help others help you. Be as specific as you can in what you want to do with the end product.

Like, I would elaborate on if I am: 1. into competitive games: csgo, siege, tarkov, valorant whatever 2. into single player games that I wanna run at 1440p/4k 3. looking for minimal input lag (and therefore more fps) 4. looking for something that can keep up with your 240Hz monitor 5. many more.

Give your requirements so people know what you want.