Your not missing out on anything (being negative and not realistic btw) . Nice ones (as personally) that are worth getting into a relationship are always taken and usually marriage (if you can go over and be just friends that yeah, its a different story as most of them are really kind and empathic and honestly care). Nice ones as body... Just say away from them, they like boys fighting over them and doesn't give rats about your feelings. Actually you'll "lose" your status if man if you are emotionally sensible (talking about walking crap) so yeah, stay away, most guys I know to have a happy marriage don't have wifes that are in the present or past, making all guys heads turn to them as she walks. One that has both, its usually a guy in "woman's" clothes who might or might not change thir sexual identity to the one they feel like they should have born with.

If however you were seriously than I really suggest seeking help as you only have one life so don't waste it because others don't find you worthy or whatever crap they gave you to end up with low social interaction