When it comes to sneezing, I don’t kink shame so that’s irrelevant. I’m personally not into that, but so long as it’s two consenting adults they can sneeze all over each other if they like.

Now, when it comes to drawing a child, that’s different of course. I don’t think little kids should be drawn sexually. However, from what I understand Nan “aged up” their characters (at least that’s what I believe they said in their apology) and I personally don’t think drawing characters that look pre-teen / teen-ish is all that abnormal or bad. Look at any hentai subreddit and you’ll find looks of underage appearing characters and LOTS of school girls. These are common themes and tropes in anime, just like in hentai.

Those characters are called chiisai in Japanese which means little or petite. A good example is Rosario + Vampire which has TONS of up skirt shots and cleavage and is just very ecchi over all, but has tons of comedy and action in it (literally one of my favourite shows ever and has some of the best voice actors in it who went on to work on Fairy Tail practically the most popular anime). Every character in the show is in high school and I think they’re 15ish and there’s one character in particular called Yukari whose very chiisai and I never personally saw any issues with it. I loved the character and the whole cast but it was a dirty show, with young characters, and young looking characters. It’s also a cult classic sort of anime, with a decent following.

I’m not saying all this to further “justify” Nan’s actions or my opinions, but to explain to you why I’m confused. You said it yourself you’re not a weeb so I’m telling you all this so you might understand why a condescending question doesn’t help me anymore then your original post.