I admit I do have some cliche perspectives of the World. Once again my positive posts have been intentional. Its my choice to present myself in that way. However one other thing is I feel apathetic to the perspective that you guys have a "struggle" when I know some Hapas who could less of a shit of this sub and have discouraged me from being on this sub. However I do feel pretty much hopeless in what exactly can be done to change this situation regarding the imbalance of WMAF couples without sounding like a bigot. Ultimately people have the choice to whom they want to date. I have nothing against preferences and I admit I have my own too. Some of those couples should never have kids because they are racist self hating people or have racial fetishes. The childhood they give to their children is just shitty. However at what level can you do anything to stop this from occurring without sounding like you are some racist POS who is against all interracial couples. I do agree those bad couples should be called out for who they are but the reality is these broken households are found in all races. I hate seeing those bad couples too but not all interracial including WMAF relationships are necessarily all terrible. The point I try to take a more positive perspective is for Hapas regardless of personal circumstances I still believe people have their own autonomy in life if it is still limited by familial circumstances. I think its insulting for you guys to go off and have the perspectives that because of how you were born somehow your life is hopeless. I will not subscribe to that kind of defeatist mentality of the World. Remember that for me positivity is a coping mechanism. I use it to avoid getting shit in my life. Perhaps I intentionally avoid the issues out there in life and try to look at the happy side of life just to feel sane. I've been depressed before and the reason why I dislike some users on this sub is they have the same kind of cyclical negative attitude towards life. You keep repeating the same thoughts over and over again with that kind of mentality. I use this perspective to be positive to cope through a difficult year in my life and no one around me suspected a thing occurred in my life. You see my perceived positive attitude in life is deceptive. My point is my positive attitude to life is a coping mechanism. I know this sounds straight out of a self help book but its the perspective I used to cope with. I have to deal with moody people a lot in life and as a result I actually have become stoic and rather unattached to certain situations.