Hey guys. I’m an Amwf hapa. Do you guys know any subreddits or elsewhere where I can find other Amwf hapas to talk about our lives? I’m looking and I can’t find any. I just want to know how other amwf hapas are doing.

My AM father abandoned me/never knew I was born and my WF mother loved her white son she lost custody of more than me, so she abused me emotionally and physically every day of my life until she overdosed on heroin and I was put into foster care. I was adopted by my really amazing dads though who helped me heal and showered me with unconditional love. My adult life is a struggle, and actually I recently lost one of my dads to a decade-long battle against cancer. He was one of the strongest and best people I ever knew and I miss him every single day and always will.

It’s one of the hardest times in my life right now. But I do have a lot to be thankful for. I have a stable, good career and a nice apartment. I have a big adopted family and many friends. I would like to date and get married, but that’s always been a struggle for me. I want to adopt a cat too. I wouldn’t change my past though tbh…I wouldn’t want to be anyone else but me. I struggle, but I do love who I am and how far I’ve come in life.

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