Randians, what would you do if you were the girl/boy in this case?

Hello.... I am a 27yr old girl engaged to a 28yr old guy. Its arrange marriage. Recently on phon he disclosed tht he had an affair with a girl in his neighborhood. I said OK. I didn't enquire anything more.

Next day he asked if I had any relation. I told yes I had 1 relation in the past. Now to my surprise he is asking every detail about relation like what we both did together in intimate moments etc. I feel this insulting. I had once physicl relation with him. but somewhere I feel I don't


  • you didn't ask your would be husband about his past or relation with her girlfriend so it doesn't mean he should not ask you.

  • You didn't ask him, that's your point of view or mentality however you can't bind someone not to ask you any question.

  • Secondly, whatever you did in past if he does want to know then tell him, why are you hiding it.

  • So, better tell him everything (It is completely depends on you, either to tell or ask about his past).


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