Hello.... I am a 27yr old girl engaged to a 28yr old guy. Its arrange marriage. Recently on phon he disclosed tht he had an affair with a girl in his neighborhood. I said OK. I didn't enquire anything more.
Next day he asked if I had any relation. I told yes I had 1 relation in the past. Now to my surprise he is asking every detail about relation like what we both did together in intimate moments etc. I feel this insulting. I had once physicl relation with him. but somewhere I feel I don't
you didn't ask your would be husband about his past or relation with her girlfriend so it doesn't mean he should not ask you.
You didn't ask him, that's your point of view or mentality however you can't bind someone not to ask you any question.
Secondly, whatever you did in past if he does want to know then tell him, why are you hiding it.
So, better tell him everything (It is completely depends on you, either to tell or ask about his past).
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