Which men left her? All! First chads left her. Then her last husband left her too. Simply because she cannot forget chads after marrying him. If she has forgotten she might not have tried to buy something to make him like her old chads. So the attitude she has towards men, one for pumping and one for cleaning/loving she is alone.

She is 30,a mother from past relation. Unable to forget chads, but chads probably wont give a fk about an older woman. She will end up looking what she posted about,love family,because she is now in her senses. And believe me no sane man would give a fk if they will know her history. So she is going to end up asking the same. I mean forget her attitude, being a single mother and 30 is gonna be huge reason she will end up asking waatm.